Entering my forties has been a liberating journey, especially when it comes to fashion and beauty. Gone are the days of adhering to strict rules; now, I embrace my personal style with confidence and flair. Discovering my personal style based on my body type has been the most exciting part of my sartorial journey through the last decade.
In today’s blog post, I’ll share some fashion and beauty rules I’m happily breaking in my forties, along with insights into trending topics and timeless style.
No More Age-Appropriate Dressing
One of the first rules I tossed out the window was the notion of dressing “age-appropriately.” Who decides what’s appropriate anyway? Instead, I focus on what makes me feel confident, expresses my personality, and fits my not-so-curvy body. Whether it’s rocking a leather jacket or a mini skirt, flashing daytime sequins, strutting in high platform heels, wearing hair bows, if it fits me, flatters me and I can walk in them without breaking a leg- I wear what feels right for me.
no more bright colors
If you know me, you know ” how much I love and live for colors” . While the world expects you to stick to more subdued, toned down hues for your color choices- I am totally shunning that theory! No offense, but I hate grays and browns- they give me all the glum. I like to spice up my life, mood and wardrobe with colors and prints and textures and sparkles – so be it! I wore color yesterday, I am wearing it today and I will continue wearing it till the day I desire.
playing with colors
While some may say less is more as you age, I believe makeup is a form of self-expression that knows no bounds. I enjoy experimenting with vibrant eyeshadows, bold lip colors, and graphic liners. Age should never limit creativity. I have been a sucker for a red lip-bold eye combination and if you see me wearing one- don’t be surprised coz I know I rock it!
ditching trends for timeless pieces
While trends come and go, timeless pieces never go out of style. Instead of chasing every fleeting trend, I invest in quality pieces that stand the test of time. A well-tailored blazer, a classic trench coat, or a timeless handbag are wardrobe staples that never fail to elevate any look. I am not entirely ditching trends but the ones that fit my lifestyle, my personal aesthetic are definitely welcome. I am known for mixing high and low and I will continue charming you with that.
celebrating individuality
In a world of Instagram filters and Photoshop, embracing natural beauty and individuality is more important than ever. I have wrinkles rather fine lines currently, gray hairs I cover coz I choose to, but I am still celebrating my imperfections. I am yet to explore the world of botox and I will once I’ve made peace with the fact of injecting toxin ( Botulinum toxin ) in my body. Till then my forties mantra ” Authenticity never goes out of style. ”
prioritizing comfort over style all the time
While comfort is key, if the shoe fits, is comfortable and I can walk in them without breaking any bone, then I am sticking with my high heels. I have done a major shoe purge and now have a closet with shoes that are good quality and meant for walking. I’ve traded my sky-high stilettos for stylish yet comfortable footwear like platform heels, wedges, cool sneakers, and supportive heels.
mindful consumption
With sustainability becoming a hot topic, I’m more mindful of my fashion and beauty consumption. I opt for ethical and eco-friendly brands, embrace closet repurposing, and recycling is my fashion mantra. Fashion should never come at the expense of the planet and this one’s a keeper for life.
In conclusion, breaking fashion and beauty rules in my forties has been empowering and liberating. By embracing individuality, prioritizing comfort, and celebrating timeless style, I’ve found a newfound confidence that transcends age. Trends may come and go, but true style is timeless.
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